Choosing a small wedding is a deliberate, meaningful decision – and one that deserves to be celebrated properly. As small wedding specialists, we’ve long known the magic that a small wedding holds, yet we still hear the same myths time and time again. So, let’s set the record straight…
Myth #1 – They look cheap and basic
You can absolutely have a small wedding that’s big on style, with all the details. From a champagne tower moment to a striking moongate floral arch, we are firm believers that choosing to have a smaller wedding celebration should never mean having to compromise on stye. A Georgian country house with elegant interiors and countless photo opportunities, Treseren provides a beautiful blank canvas, whether your vision is understated minimalist or vibrant and bold.
‘We were looking for a small, intimate venue that could deliver a luxury affair for our closest family members and Treseren surpassed every expectation we had. The team were just incredible throughout and revelled in every unique idea we threw at them, from the afternoon tea to the champagne tower, five course tasting menu with wine parings and a woodfired feast the following day – everything was amazing’ – Siobhan and Rob
Myth #2 – They lack atmosphere
If anything, the opposite is true.
A small wedding creates an atmosphere that is deeply personal and wonderfully relaxed. When you are surrounded only by your very favourite people, the energy is warmer, the conversations deeper and the moments more meaningful. There’s no need to rush around the room – you can truly enjoy the company you’ve chosen to share this time with.
At Treseren, our weddings for up to 22 unfold over a long weekend. From a welcoming arrival feast on Friday, to a leisurely Sunday brunch and a Monday morning farewell – there’s time to slow down, connect and create memories that linger long after you’ve left.
We had the best wedding weekend – During our stay, we did not have to think about anything other than enjoying ourselves and having another drink! We highly recommend Treseren to anyone looking for a relaxed, intimate wedding, avoiding the chaotic rush of a big one day event, something we wanted to stay well away from! – Alex and Georgie
‘We could not have imagined how magical our time at Treseren would be. It was a truly joyful three days, full of love and laughter. We loved seeing our families getting to know each other better over the sumptuous breakfast feasts, and our welcome meal was absolute perfection. We, and our families, felt completely at home at Treseren. Lovedays Cocktail Bar was a real highlight – especially for the younger members of the party!’ – John and Clare
Myth #3 – Your guests will be bored
A small wedding doesn’t need a packed itinerary to feel special.
In fact, guests often appreciate the freedom to relax and enjoy their surroundings without being ushered from one activity to the next. Choose a venue that naturally lends itself to entertainment – beautiful gardens for lawn games, cosy interiors, and a fabulous cocktail bar (hint: that’s us).
You can of course add additional thoughtful elements of entertainment that work really well at a micro wedding – from couple’s crosswords to a polaroid camera station. And dancing in the Drawing Room is always a great way to end the evening!
‘Treseren really have mastered the art of small weddings and we couldn’t have wished for anything better. All of our guests just can’t believe how magical and perfect it all was. We will cherish our time spent at Treseren forever’ – Libby and Alex
Myth #4 – You can’t include wedding traditions
Of course you can! A small wedding doesn’t mean abandoning tradition – it simply means choosing the ones that truly matter to you. Whether it’s having a traditional cutting the cake moment or throwing the bouquet and having a first dance – you can choose to include any of the traditional elements of a larger wedding that make your heart sing, and skip the ones that don’t appeal to you. There are no rules!
Myth #5 – You will be swamped in really big rooms
Whilst you may find larger wedding venues that also offer small celebrations, we really do think that a venue that specialises in only hosting small weddings and is therefore size appropriate, is the best starting point for a really special micro celebration.
Treseren offers all of the grandeur of a stately home, with impressive architectural features, high ceilings and manicured gardens, just on a smaller scale. Our reception rooms are the perfect size for a wedding with up to 22 people, with wedding guests bringing the house to life with a bustling, welcoming environment. We are also never tailoring our wedding planning advice to a ‘small wedding’ – small weddings are what we do!
‘Treseren was the most perfect venue for our wedding. The atmosphere was filled with love & joy and our guests were relaxed and truly appreciative of the love, care and attention that went into creating such a beautiful wedding. The house and gardens are a real gem, filled with history, and surrounded by beautiful gardens – the peace and stillness a real blessing for us’ – Donna and James
The entire weekend ran so smoothly and meant we didn’t need to worry about a thing. We had a vision of the perfect little wedding somewhere beautiful where we could celebrate with our immediate families and Treseren absolutely delivered on the brief! – Emily and Aiden
A small wedding isn’t a compromise. It’s a conscious choice to celebrate with intention, style and heart – and when done well, it can be truly unforgettable.
Do you think a small wedding could be the right choice for you? Get in touch to start your wedding planning journey.
Photography by –
Lyra and Moth
Ash Powell
Sofie Michelle
Photos from Sophie
James Frost
Mollie McAusland
